How to Travel the World from Your Front Porch (in your Underwear)

What if our “work” were to do everything we could do to maintain peace and balance in this body, so that we could be ready, poised, and collected… ready to do our part in this grand scheme, even if we don’t quite know yet exactly what our part is going to be? 

I’m sitting on the front porch in my underwear in January. It’s 43 degrees Fahrenheit (about 6 degrees Centigrade).  I’m in the mountains of North Carolina—not Hawaii—but it feels like Hawaii to me!  

I’ve been sitting in my underwear on my front porch every day when it’s sunny, at mid-day. The same sun shines on all the porches in the neighborhood, but I don’t see anyone else out in their underwear. Why? Are they staying inside worrying? It’s even more likely that they haven’t yet discovered that when it’s above 40 F, and you take off all of those bundlesome layers, the SKIN absorbs the sun and the sunlight feels like a warm fire…Am the lucky one who discovered this?

We should be working.  We should be doing something,” that elusive voice-from-somewhere says.  But what if my “work” were to do everything I could to maintain peace and balance in this body, so that I could be ready, poised, collected… “together”…ready to do my part in this grand scheme, even if I don’t quite no yet exactly what my part is going to be?  The best way to know the next step to take is to be present–in this body, alive, and listening–rather than caught in the quagmires of doubt and mental confusion…

I have a quote on my wall from a Christian Cactus Shaman which reads,

“The true Shaman is one who holds the Golden Dream in his or her heart, until it comes true on Mother Earth”.

What is YOUR Golden Dream?  What would you dream if you even DARED to allow yourself a moment to DREAM BIG?  I dream of a world where we can walk in peace, and touch one another with love and excitement…where even our abilities to reach out and touch someone become so magnified that we are always connected, ecstatically ONE with our divine lovers, everywhere, past, present, and future.  Let it be so.  See it to be so.  It is so.  Gay-Men, and Hallelujah!

SECRET #1:  You can be anywhere!  Close your eyes, breathe, dream!  Dream so vividly you can taste, smell, touch, hear, and see Hawaii…and then, it’s as good as being there.  I promise.

SECRET #2: YOU create your own Hawaii–even when you’re in Hawaii!

I’ve been to Hawaii more than half a dozen times, and I can tell you that I’ve seen just as many miserable people there—if not more—than right here at home.  We have lots of reasons to be miserable right now, apparently—like a global pandemic which threatens to cut us off from people we love, or even take their lives, and still…

Where do I want to go today, sitting right here?  I’m in Hawaii, on my porch.  Am I transcending my problems?  I guess some could argue so, but My Truth is that if you have access to heaven in a body, why would you focus on everything that could go wrong…when there just might be a possibility…of touching God, and bringing something back home to Earth that can make life better for you and other people?   If you could do it, wouldn’t you?  Of course you would!

My sky-clad sun meditations at 40 degrees have been paying off! The peace and serenity I manage to create in this crazy world on my front porch are becoming fertile ground for written words (like what you’re reading now), evolutionary audio podcast recordings, and yes–even dynamic sex videos!

Every week or two in 2021, I’ll be sharing my favorite collections of inspirational articles, songs, dance tracks, guided exercises, gay erotica, and yes–even special TRICKS to help make life easier (and yes, I DO mean TRICKS as in pictures of hot guys I would love to take to bed (or have!), as well as TRICKS as in tips or suggestions to help enhance the depth and quality of our daily lives.)

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Happy New Year, Honey!  I’m excited to share this journey with you.



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I’m very excited to announce my new series of explicitly-hot gay sex stories, interspersed with live interviews, discussions, and exercises you can try at home! ENJOY the fuck out this blissful, unprecedented deep-dive into gay men’s sexuality! Yum-yum! Enjoy! Brad.

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Tight, Sexy, Hot, Gay-Ass Bikini Underwear

A Story of Thrilling Sexual Magic Fetish Fun!

Photo on 10-11-19 at 10.05 PM (original)Did it ever occur to many of us that HOT GAY SEX is really all about the HEAT and PASSION of two men letting themselves be fully expressed in heart, body, cock, asshole, and voice?   

We know all about the cock and asshole (or so we think—even though multitudes of men have never had a conscious finger in or near their asshole)…but what about the full expression of heart, body, and voice?

I want to take pictures.

I want to document this life of blissful communion with the divine

in a Temple made for ecstatic, euphoric, hot sexual love between (and among) men…

a place of soft-glowing light

and warmth

even on the coldest of winter days.

But Today, the picture I paint is via the embodied magic of words alone…

The man who arrived at my door today wanted to find the confidence he needed to fully enjoy his life.  He was ready to let go of the perfectionism and lingering self-doubt which had held him back from fully realizing the beautiful, soulful, wholly-sexual and magical being that he really was!  Best of all—and lucky for the two of us—he realized that his horny, excited body was going to the best possible fucking tool imaginable to fuel his life’s dreams and heart’s passions.

I’m never really sure if a guy will show up.  I’ve had guys who traveled a distance of over a hundred miles to see me, then got within a block of my house and chickened out.  You just never can tell what will happen when a man’s fears get the very best of him….

In this case, he made it, and I was deeply and authentically grateful.  I was especially happy he showed up because I knew for a fact that by the time he got here, he would be so fucking excited he could barely stand it.  Sometimes, that much dick-throbbing excitement is more than a man can bear…more anticipation and excitement than any of us are used to knowing…

And so here it is, excitement—throbbing in the place where our two hearts and pelvises meet…Oh, FUCK yeah!


I had coached him to build and hold his excitement for two full days, which I knew was a lot to ask.  Why was it a lot to ask?  Because I knew what a horny, excited fucker he was!  We had talked on the phone, and within minutes, we discovered that we both enjoyed a man-fetish which excited both of us to the point where it almost hurts:

Tight, sexy, hot, gay-ass bikini underwear.

We both liked to see it on a man’s body.

We both liked the way it felt on ours.

We both loved the way our cock strained against the ball-hugging, dick-tickling fabric.

We both loved it when we started to undo a man’s pants and our hands discovered very brief briefs.

We both loved it when our fingers softly traced the outline of the soft fabric where it met his skin….

And so we had told each other, on the phone, two days in advance of our meeting, how much we loved hot underwear.  He knew what excited him and I knew how to do it.  We knew all I had to do was say “hot sexy men’s bikini underwear” and he would almost immediately shoot a fucking load in his pants.  When we hung up the phone, my last words to him were, “Be sure to play with yourself as much as you can for the next 2 days, but don’t cum”.


You never know if a man can hold it that long…

You never know what he’ll do when he’s so excited he can’t sleep.

And so…1 day after our phone call and 1 day before the hot date, I sent him just one more email…

just to make sure he knew there was more than one of us throbbing in his fucking pants…

just to make sure he knew there was more than one of us rubbing our throbbing dick all over the sheets and making fuck noises day and night….

just so he knew there was basically a fucking guarantee that there was some fucking over-the-top magnificent dick-balls-and-ass-and man-fucking FUN to CUM!  



I love writing like this.  I know, almost without a shadow of a doubt, that there isn’t another man on this earth who is writing like this right now.  These are my words, my song, my signature!  These words are the conveyor belt which brings soulful hot SEX back into the collective consciousness!  Yes!  Gay-MEN, and hallelujah!


They were briefs—very brief, and silky to the touch…I could tell by the outline of the soft fabric under my fingers, as I gently, slowly unbuttoned his fly and slid my fingers inside his trousers warmed by his body heat.  

By the time I got his pants down to his knees, his big dick was throbbing in the his tight fucking underwear, which looked as if it had been purchased specifically to accommodate a dick as big as his…throbbing, curving downward, straining against the soft athletic mesh while my beard—then my tongue—traced the inside of his thigh, gently nibbling the outside of his balls, right where the fabric met his pubes…nibbling his balls through the tight fabric, until the smell of the sweet sweat of his balls excited me so much that I had no choice other than to put his big dick in my mouth—still in his underwear—so that I stretched the fabric even tighter down over his shaft, my teeth gently closing just enough to put gentle pressure on his throbbing, happy fucking shaft….ahhhhhhh!


I consider myself to be one of the luckiest men alive.

I get to HAVE SEX with excited, horny men

every day, if I want to

and I get to call it my livelihood!

Day after day, year after year, I cultivate the fine art of euphoric sexual FUN!

And in the end, when it’s all said and done, we all prosper.

We all prosper and throb and electrify and magnify this magnificent life on Earth…not only for ourselves, but for every person, tree, plant, animal, river, and ocean.

We do it for life.

This is my life.

This is my livelihood.

Gay-MEN, and Bless-It-Be!


My dick excited him.

He relished the way it throbbed.

He savored every slow, intentional brush of my beard against his…

every slight caress of his nipple with my scruff

every gentle nibble and inhale of his luscious armpits

every delicate, intentional caress of his face, neck, and chest with my hand

We could live in this delight forever, and we knew it.

We could live in the delight standing…heart to beating heart and cock to throbbing cock…upright, with vertical, horny dicks throbbing in our briefs…savoring, relishing the touch of beard on skin and tongue on lips, dick-on-hard-fucking-DICK and heart-beat on heart-beat…

We were happy.

We were fulfilled.

And, apparently, by most people’s standards, we hadn’t even started yet…


We hadn’t even started yet, and yet still, we felt completely fulfilled, already.

What kind of a fucking paradoxical miracle is that?

What happened?

What happened to the rush, the urgency to CUM, the insatiable desire to




What happened?

Well, if I might venture to answer, here is what I would say:

What happened was that two men got horny, then two men relished the full EXCITEMENT of being excited.  Two men enjoyed whole-body excitement from the first touch.  Even before they ever touched, there was something present which many, many people never get.  Many people never get it because they don’t even know they’re seeking it, and the reason they keep seeking it is because they never got it.  

How did we do it, this man and I, today?

We did it by merging ecstatic sexual excitement with heart-felt intent.

“SEXUAL EXCITEMENT—but you weren’t even having sex!” you say.

Well, I don’t know about you, but when I was 12 years old, I looked up “human sexuality” in my family’s set of encyclopedias.   Excited, with fingers trembling and my little cock already growing larger and more excited with every word I read, I savored these words: 

“Unlike the female sex organs, which are internal, the male sex organs are primarily outside the body.  The penis usually hangs flaccid outside the body, but when a male becomes sexually excited, the soft tissues of the penis fill with blood, and the penis becomes erect, and much larger.”

I throbbed for days after I read that.  I was so hard that I couldn’t force my dick downward enough to piss in the commode, and so I had to go outside to pee in the woods for 4 days straight, where my erect cock could just spurt piss up into the air like a fountain.  I hadn’t learned to jack off and squirt my own cum yet, so I just throbbed, excited by the hot liquid squirting up, outward, making a nice high arc into the air and down onto the dry, crunchy autumn leaves beneath my feet, beyond the edge of the woods at the end of our house.

Sexual excitement, YEAH!  Have we become conditioned, somehow, to believe that anything sexual must involve some form of penetration?  Surely not!  So back to the story…

Two men enjoyed whole-body ecstatic excitement from the first touch today.  How did we do it?  We did it by merging ecstatic sexual excitement with intent.  First, there was the endless, cock-throbbing, dick-writhing EXCITEMENT which filled our whole horny bodies from head to toe for days on end before we even got together.  And when we finally did get together, we enjoyed the excitement of our pent-up balls to no end.  For us, there was no end to the bliss.  We wrote a brand-new story that dashed old paradigms to pieces and shattered the sexually-frustrating, unfulfilling, tragic old story of millions of men who live in a world where sexual excitement can’t live for more than a few minutes—or even a few seconds—before the CUM SHOT comes spurting out and it’s all over and pants are back on and men are out the door and back to…work?

Yeah, WORK!  Back to work!  Even while we throbbed and relished the excitement of throbbing in our fucking pants, I took my time, remembering that I was here to do the unprecedented work of inviting my lover to breathe with me, and to remember the intention he had brought to me today.  He was here to let go of the self-doubt that had held him back, and I was here to remind his dick-throbbing, underwear-fucking-excited body and heart to enjoy his life with the full confidence and passion he had within him. 

If you ever want to see a fucking horny, excited man go into cathartic whole-body orgasms—even when he doesn’t even know what that means, and even without knowing any fancy techniques—just ask him what he’s ready to invite into his life, and what he’s ready to release to make room for it.  Yeah, ask him what he’s ready to invite into his life, even while you’re undressing him and pressing your hard fucking dick against his.  Ask him, “What are you releasing today, Lover, to make room for your wildest dreams?”  Ask him while your tongue caresses the underside of his throbbing, pulsing dick-head…

My lover today wanted to invite in a sense of confidence and presence in all of his endeavors, and he said he was ready to let go of his self-doubt and perfectionism to allow in this new confidence and freedom.  I pulled his underwear down underneath his ball sac, caressed his whole cock with my tongue, then took his whole cock in my mouth with salacious delight, and sucked him devilishly until I could tell by his shouts and moans that if I sucked him another half-second, he would most definitely CUM.  I stopped just short of his cum-shot, stood up, and said, “Let’s take a few deep breaths together.”  

We stood, one foot apart, breathing deeply and throbbing while we looked directly into one another’s eyes.  I stared into the depths of his luscious brown eyes and told him in my best “fuck me, lover” voice, 

“I’m here to support you in letting go of your perfectionism and self-doubt, and inviting in a life of confidence, freedom, and celebration.  I’m celebrating your life with my whole fucking body while I excite the living fuck out of you…”

He writhed, squirmed, and shivered head to toe in cathartic whole-body ecstasy, even when I was barely touching him…

Sexual excitement, for these two fucking excited men today, had nothing to do with fucking, sucking, or getting fucked—at least not for the first 45 minutes of our excitement-filled rendezvous…

Fuck yeah, there’s plenty of time for fucking, but only when you want to fuck so bad that you can’t fucking wait another second.  But until that moment, when you just fucking can’t stand it anymore, the fun is in the pure sexual excitement.

Everybody likes to be excited, right?  I mean, really, who doesn’t?  We love to feel our heart beat and our blood pump.  This beating heart and this throbbing dick remind us that we are, indeed, fully alive in a world which, all too sadly, has become ultra-dominated by mind and thought—errant, self-destructive, and illness-inducing thought….

And yet, on an unconscious level, are we suppressing our desire to be excited?  Are we unconsciously trying to cum way too quickly because the excitement is more than we can bear?  Let’s face it…we’ve been completely, positively, without a shadow of a doubt conditioned by gay porn.

So what’s next?   What’s going to fill the place of our aching, longing, balls and never-ending strife?


Hot dick, throbbing behind thin cotton, caressed by gentle, fully-conscious use of my teeth, my beard, my roar, my growl…every part of me that can possibly titillate, exhilarate, and excite a man’s throbbing boner…

Body-to-Moaning-and-Groaning-Body, we relish the delicious, wonderful fuck-bounty of heart-centered fuck sounds.   Undulating, writhing, gyrating, caressing, growling, I shout out to him “Fuck YES, I love you, you fucking STUD!”



I loved him, I really did.

I loved the way his lips met mine.  I loved the way we caressed each other’s bodies like we loved each other.  I loved his soft, warm, brown eyes and glowing brown complexion.  I loved his slight belly and smooth skin.  I loved his throbbing, beautiful cock.   I loved his nipples.  He loved my kiss.  And while we fucked, he looked directly into my eyes and said, “Thank you, Lover”.  I taught him to do this.  I taught him that “love” is not a word which means “I want you and you’re mine.”  No, love is a word which means, “I’m here to represent every single lover you’ve ever known, and every single lover you ever will know.  Right here, now, our pasts and futures merge into this infinite, never-ending, timeless moment we call the present because it is the greatest gift, and we are sharing it, together…”

“I love you,” I told him, “and I’m seeing you making all the right choices in life, with complete confidence, every step of the way”.  Then, in the next breath, said, “I know just how to excite you, fucker.  All I have to do is tell you how fucking hot and exciting you look and feel in your hot gay bikini underwear…”

I had his code words dialed in.  Something about “gay” and “bikini underwear” and “I fucking love you, lover” just sent both of our fucking excitement levels to the zenith.  He nearly shot a load of cum out of his dick when I said it.  Shudders went up and down his body, from head to toe and from ball-sac up to heart.  I knew I was just about to fuck the cum out of him.  My dick pulsed and throbbed in his perfectly-hot, exciting fuckhole.  I saw a big drop of cum ooze right out of the end of his excited dick, but I knew just when to pause…

Breathing, panting together, we lay, motionless, my cock up his ass, my hands behind the upper part of his back, his heels braced solidly between my chest and shoulders.  We could see our bodies in mirrors on either side of us, and I was the lucky guy who could see my pelvis right up against his hot ass, in a mirror which stood at the end of the bed, just past the back of his head.

“OK,” I said, “it’s time to move energy up from Daddy’s pelvis, toward his heart, or he’s going to unload a big shot of cum right up your fucking ass.  You don’t want this to end yet, do you?”

He shook his head gently from side to side, smiling a devilish grin, while taking each of his well-oiled hands to my pelvic bones, and gently caressing me up, along the lines of my abdominal muscles, and back down, while we looked into one another’s eyes, taking deep breaths together, from cock and balls, up to heart and back down.  We followed one another’s breath, without words.  We were perfectly in tune.

One thing I noticed several times in our session was the amount of eye contact, and how it varied.  Face-to-face was easy, but for some reason, the few times when he was on his belly, ass-up, with my hard cock wedged in between his fucking HOT ass cheeks, seeing each other’s face in the mirror in front of us seemed difficult.  To be more specific, I think that looking at each of our own faces was somewhat of a challenge.  I knew I was a bit self-conscious of my gray hair and my age-telling face.  My guess was that he either still had a bit of residual shame about being in a submissive (bottom-up) position or found some part of his appearance unacceptable to his own eyes.  I noticed that he wouldn’t look at us long, there—me on top of him, cock up his ass crack, nibbling his neck.  I checked in once to ask how he was doing, and he responded with a slew of positive words like “euphoric, incredibly happy, blissed-out, loving the feel of my hard dick on these sheets”.  I must admit, he was an exceptionally-expressive lover, which might be explained by the fact that he hold me at one point during our session that his favorite sex was GROUP sex and that he enjoyed orgies every chance he got—mainly at a specific sex club in Washington, DC.  It was evident that Fuck-Buddy LOVED sex and enjoyed it often, and for this and many other reasons, my day’s “work” was made exceptionally fun.

Of course, no matter how exciting and fun the session gets (and this one was pretty up-there in my repertoire of memories—about to be immortalized by this marathon writing stint), I take extra care to periodically remind the client (and myself) that my full attention is on supporting him in the intentions he brought to me, which—in this case—were to fully embrace his life’s purpose by letting go of residual perfectionism and self-doubt, and to invite in more confidence and celebration of the pure perfection he already is.

And boy, did we have fun, constantly remembering why we were here, and interspersing the sweetest of incantations with the raunchiest, most exciting words we could find to keep each other right on the brink of sexual climax for…my God…hours

Right on the brink of sexual climax, we writhed, my cock undulating, squirming, bouncing, gyrating, and drilling his fucking wonderful, hot ass!  Rhythmically, I periodically slowed by circular gyrations, while I whispered in his ear “You have everything you need to live your life to the fullest,” then continued the delightful, rhythmic, undulating, gyrating dance of fuck-me-up-the-ass-pure-bliss.

Gay-MEN, and blessed be.


How does this story come to an end?  Is there more?

Does it end when we cum?  If so, the story won’t ever be over, because we never came.  I just fucked the living daylights into him…first in our hot underwear, then body-to-body full-frontal fucking, then hot deep-dick assfucking.  Does it need to end?  


Eventually, I saw him back out into the world.  I had told him at the very beginning, when I took his coat, that he wouldn’t be the same when he left.  I had told him that I would hold the intention, throughout our time together, to send him back out into the world in a way which would enhance the rest of his day and make it more fun and more fulfilling.  When he crossed my threshold going the other way—back out—I saw a man who was fully at peace, confident, awake, happy and alive…and would it even suffice for me to say that I was a new man, too?

For more than 10, maybe 15, years, it seems, I’ve waited to write this story.  Many times, I wrote parts of the story, until today…I felt like I wrote it all.  I could have another experience, with another lover-client-friend, and somehow, I think it might be the same story.  I think maybe, possibly, I’ve written the Universal truth now, which transcends who we’re with, what they look like, or even what we do together.  Wholeheartedly, I am letting the world see into a reality I’ve held dear ever since the first time I shot a load in my new bikini underwear during a wet dream I was having at age 14.  I’ve waited for a day when I could let the world see, and my heart sings out, today, “The day has arrived!  The day has arrived!  Praise fucking hot-gay Jesus, the day has arrived!  Gay-Men!”

And so gay-MEN, and Bless-It-Be the Reading of this Holy Fuck-Majick Word.  Gay-Men.

This is my life.  This is my purpose, and nothing can ever—or will ever—come between me and my soul’s purpose again, ever, because I am home now, and I am home to stay.  So it is, declared to be so, and known to be so.  Blessed be, and Aho!


Heart = Intent

Body = Arousal, Movement

Voice = Sound

Spirit = Breath


Try this:  Fuck in your underwear.  Make as much noise as you can.  Make fuck-noise like it’s the best fuck of your fucking life.  Go ahead!  And I don’t mean fake it.  I mean make sounds that just fucking feel good in your cock and balls, and shake your body with fuck-fun bliss.  Fuck-fun is a state of being.  You can activate it from the core of your body through sound.  Believe me, I’ve done it since I was 14, and I’ve discovered that the more privacy and safety I feel that I have available for expressing myself, the more I can let go and go completely ape-shit with unbridled passion.  Go ahead, do it!  What’s fucking stopping you!  If your life’s not set up for that much privacy and expression, then prepare for your life to change….soon.  Gay-MEN!


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Dirty Fucker

This is an excerpt from a story which will appear in my first collection of REAL GAY SEX stories from my life, The Book Of Matthew: Sexually Ecstatic Love Epiphanies from One Man-Whore to Another, in April 2020. Check back here each week between now and January 1, 2020 for yet another dick-throbbing, heart-pounding excerpt from my rich, widely-varied, and VERY gay sex life! Also, be sure to visit to find out that types of transformational Tantra sessions I’m offering right now, in person and online!

I estimated him to be about 55.

It was his 2nd session with me.  This time, he’d told me in an email, well ahead of time, that his purpose in coming to me—in addition to the immense sense of exhilaration and excitement he got from completely surrendering control—was to allow his vision to come forth, of his life filled with travel to beautiful places, enjoying delightful sexual encounters with dynamic, exciting men!

“You’re gonna get it,” I told him, as I wrapped my hard cock in an ultra-sensitive non-latex condom, greased up his hole and my shaft with the world’s best lube, and teased him just enough to hear him BEG for it.

“Please fuck me, sir!” the horny fucker begged, gutturally…

“Can you see your beautiful life behind that blindfold?”

He nodded, panting, the upper half of his face well-covered by the same wide strip of red fabric that I had recently I had used on a porn set.  I had put blindfolds on two different porn stars, but honesty…I don’t think the fuck-magic of two porn stars even came close to approaching magic we were making here, now, fueled by his vision of a life filled with beautiful places and exciting men.

“You fucking love dirty lovers, don’t you, fucker?”

He nodded again, holding his breath as I took both of his feet in my hands, held them over my head, and pressed my well-lubed throbbing dick-head right up against his asshole.

“You’re not gonna get it till you’re ready,” I said to him, fully cognoscente of the double-entendre I was speaking—not only for his begging asshole, but for his hungry life, which longed for freedom, greater ease of movement, and—alas—wonderful, dynamic, empowering FUCK-fun, just like we were just about to enjoy…right…NOW…

“Breathe with me, Lover,” I said to him, gently, even while holding his feet firmly and letting him feel the throb of my pulsing dick-head, just entering enough to gently stretch out his outer sphincter with each pulse…

Together, we breathed…

“Let’s take 3 more breaths,” I said to him.

His body relaxed—even his legs, suspended in my hands—and for those few seconds, it felt like all time disappeared.  No needs or longing remained…just 2 men, alone, in a room…2 men, alone…

“It’s just us two, just you and me, love-buddy…” I said to him, pulling my dick back for a minute and leaning forward to let my pounding heart vibrate against his taint meat…

It’s opening now…

The Earth is opening beneath me,

and I’m falling, falling…

I lean my head back…

My heart opens to the sky,

and I can see the sky 

through the ceiling

opening, opening…

until I can see the stars…

even in the daytime…

even while my heart pounds


My heart BECOMES the pulse of life

the DRUM

to sustain all life.

I pull him onto me, 

feeling how long he’s been waiting, begging…

My body dances inside of him, 

standing up

while he convulses, writhes,

and laughs cathartically…

We’re skyrocketing now

through the fucking universe

Two Men


with Everything that ever existed…


I climb up onto the massage table and slide his well-oiled body back toward the wall so that I can really lay into him and fuck him on his back, from above, with his feet almost touching his ears and my two hands gently massaging the back of his scalp and neck, pulling his body tight against my pelvis while we kiss and eat each other’s face like hungry animals, grunting gutturally with the pure thrill and exhilaration of whole body euphoric FUCK-fun…

I pass his right leg in front of me, past my chest, to meet his other leg, and in one smooth movement, I hop down off of the massage table while I pull his body toward me.  Now, he’s positioned on his right side, perfectly positioned so that his ass is within inches of my throbbing boner.  I take his right shoulder with my right hand and pass my left hand between his legs to get a grip on his left inner thigh, and proceed to fuck the living shit out of him, on his side.  The massage table—oil-slick, yet anchored by yoga mats on the floor to make the legs skid-free—becomes the ultimately-HOT surface for me to pull his whole body onto and off of my throbbing dick, giving him the luscious sensation of being FUCKED at a particularly unusual and sensational angle, on his side, weightless, slithering, and completely under the care and control of a dominant, excited TOP…

JUST what he asked for!

I fucked him for two solid hours.  Repeatedly, the energy oscillated from wild abandon to complete stillness…

“Dirty Lover” became his magic words, which simultaneously excited the fuck out of him and invoked visions of years of wonderful, kinky lovers to cum 🙂

“Your lovers really love your wonderful, naked, beautiful, life-filed body,” I affirmed in innumerable ways.  “Your lovers are filthy, wonderful fuckers who get excited by getting naked and hot with you in bed!”

T’was a transformational Magic Fuck scene indeed!  And did I mention he never got hard?


Our culture has removed itself very far from what passionate sex really is.  This man loved sex!  His whole body was alive, passionate, and excited!  It’s amazing to even conceive for a minute that most—if not all—men this man had encountered, up until now, would have perceived his sexual expression to be dysfunctional, based on how hard his dick got and how long it stayed hard!  What?

This man was a euphoric lover, enthralled with ecstasy!  I loved every fucking minute with him, and so did he!

When would the rest of the world catch up with us?  Soon!  In the meantime, all of his lovers have caught up, because we shifted the reality of sexual enjoyment for him and named the quality of his favorite, soon-to-be-clearly-manifest DIRTY Fuckin’ LOVERS.

Gay-Men, and Hallelujah!

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Just Another Day in Brad’s Life: Fuckbuddies, Friends, a Porn Shoot, and Talking to Trees

A raw, unedited entry from my journal.  Jan. 28, 2019, Asheville, North Carolina, USA

So here I sit, looking out on frost-covered Earth, beholding that brilliant deep-orange sunshine beaming horizontally across this room while I sit in wooly socks and thermal “drawers”.  I’m in my big rocking chair with feet and legs propped up on a massage table so that I can relish writing  from a semi-reclining position…

What could I say to anyone now, that would most matter?

A voice from deep inside says, “Be still and know that I am God.”  I see, feel, sense…a tranquility when I stare at the tree outside my window, covered in an evergreen vine filled with red berries, still, even in the frost.  For a flash of an instant, it feels like nothing in life is more important than hanging out here, being as still as this Tree in Winter, with nowhere to go and nothing to do…

Throughout the day, whatever I’m engaged in, if I focus just ever-so-slightly, I can navigate the world of dreams.  I can see my dreams, even (or especially) while I interact with other people.  I have access to a vast, never-ending supply of riches for my soul.  It’s always here, coursing down through me, head to toe, to head to heart to cock-and-balls to taint meat.

And it only takes a little nudge for me to start singing.  The song reverberates through me, even when my lips are not moving and my vocal cords are at rest.  The song is home.  

Rising up from me is a fountain, a well spring.  Tears and laughter become one as she rises in me to give Birth to the life which is my Heart, my True Voice.


I guarantee that what I am writing is true.  I can see it painted on the world I see, when I peer through the windows of my eyes…

And anyone I were to tell this to might say, “This is all your imagination,” but the Truth is…imagined or not, when I get to see the landscape which outpours from my heart, before my very eyes, I feel at peace.  I feel elated.  I shift from stress and strain to grace and ease.

Can I be like this all the time?  Will anything in my life get accomplished, when I become like the tree—still, singing with reverberant, vibrant life?


W from P-Town and a young guy he’s been exploring intimacy with dropped into Asheville this week!  They stayed with M and P, since I was just landing from a film shoot in Amsterdam.  Last night, their last night, I invited the whole gang over for dinner.  Simultaneously, I got a HORNY text message from a 20-young-something hot lover I fucked once back in December.  He wanted to bring his big throbbing dick right over.  Who was I to say no?  I put sweet potatoes in the oven, took meat out of the freezer to thaw, and proceeded with faith that dinner would get made and I would enjoy a hot NEKKID dick-and-ass-fuck-fun-good time with my new fuckbuddy.

I let my boyfriend Jimmy know that if he came at 5:15, he might walk in on a hot scene.  He smiled via text 🙂

I told all the others that 5:30 was a good time to come, imagining Fuckbuddy fun would likely be finished by then and if not, then…oh well!

(All of my friends understand, quite well, that my home is a designated sanctuary of sexual freedom and expression.)

So Fuckbuddy was a bit late arriving…

W and BF were early arriving.

And Me and FB were immersed in hot face-fucking fun right by the fireplace when the front door opened…

In walked by two dinner guests, food-in-hand, greeted by my ass in a hot guy’s FACE.

Their mouths gaped…

Then they adjusted, as I invited them to sit and watch or otherwise be comfy for a bit while me and FB continued to indulge in Heart69 mutual ass-eating ecstasy…

And they actually did watch…

Young Fuckbuddy was a little cautious at first (even though I had told him that all my boyfriends were coming over, and that had excited him), but I kept whispering “You’re safe…everybody here enjoys being around men who are enjoying beautiful, hot sex together.  You’re completely safe here.”

Euphoria ensued.  I nibbled his inner thighs, taint, and balls while resting my warm-oiled palm on his throbbing shaft.  He writhed in pleasure.  We gripped one another’s torso tight, our cocks pressed hard against each other’s chests in a 69, conveniently positioned to eat each other’s tasty fucking ass while we squeezed each other around the waist with every bit of strength and passion we could summon…

We were smoking a cigar when Jimmy arrived.  Hot young wrestle-buddy loved Daddy-Jimmy, so we have a DATE for hot 3-way fun Wednesday at 5 PM…at the end of cute Jimmy’s next-to-last day of work.  

Jimmy quit his job.  His last day of work is Thursday.  We leave for Mexico Friday morning at 7  AM.  I love him with every fiber of my being.  He’s the sweetest thing.  We always laugh a lot.  My work tends to be leaning toward a lot more public visibility, and it’s in times like these when I feel so grateful to be with Jimmy, OFF work.


I know you’re dying to hear about Amsterdam…and I know I want to tell you…It’s just that all I can seem to think about right now is going back to bed…

Perhaps it’s the jet lag…or the general sense that there’s so much I think I need to do in 4 days that I don’t know what to do first…

I suppose there’s plenty of time.

I suppose a relaxed body is more time-efficient…

Yeah, I’ll nap.  But for now, what I’ll say about Amsterdam is…

It was hard.  We pulled it off.  One of our 4 models dropped out on the first day when his past traumas surfaced during an introductory Tantra workshop I was leading.  I was prepared to fully support him, but he insisted he basically didn’t really want to be a porn star anymore, that he had been just doing the job for money, and that he felt it best to just go back home.  We grieved the loss and continued with our plan to film 12 short erotic films over a 3-day period in a large, grand old hotel on the edge of Amsterdam.  It snowed outside, and the wintry landscape outside the large windows of the beautiful rooms formed a perfect back-drop for the video concepts I had spent 3 months writing, but of course…being short one model meant that we needed someone to fill in for several of the videos, and guess who that was!

I like making erotic videos.  I didn’t mind the last-minute change at all!  I got to do a kinky fetish video with a gorgeous African-Caribbean German, and my long-term lover Norm and I got to enact a concept I wrote called “Fuck Me With your Whole Body,” which is a video about how to have euphoric, over-the-top sex with your entire body, head to toe, irregardless of what your dick is doing.  Norm, at age 85, is perpetually erect when he’s in bed with me, so the interesting twist on the video we created was that I—the younger of the duo—was the one who wasn’t hard all the time!  It was perfect!  The audience will now get a raw, authentic representation of male sexuality which transcends age and type.

Of course, the big drawback to modeling in several of the videos was that the filming of those videos was scheduled to happen at the same time that I was supposed to be leading workshops for the porn-star models.  The idea was for me to coach the models in how to connect more deeply and authentically and convey a sense of whole-body pleasure, ecstasy and FUN on film, which would set the films apart from the “same-old” gay porn.  So instead of coaching the models in 2-hour increments, I only got 15 minutes at the beginning of each shoot to shift their whole reality, which—needless to say—didn’t always work, although sometimes it did…

In the end, the models thanked me.  We all agreed that our 3 days together in Amsterdam had been a life-changing experience, but the hard lesson learned was that we all wished we had simply had more time together, so plans are now being made for future retreats where the guys have lots of time to explore ecstatic whole-body sexual connection in a serene retreat setting, rather than inside a hotel in mid-winter.

Overall, we had fun.  And now I need a nap.


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